Thursday, January 31, 2008

mouse cliques

cory doctorow has talked about this extensively, and i can't help but vigorously nod in agreement with him.

social networks that are based purely on real world connectivity (past or present) seem to follow a boom-bust cycle. they tend to attract lots of people once they hit a certain critical mass, since they offer the potential to reconnect with so many people that you may have lost contact with. but this virtually guarantees that these networks will hit critical mass 2, where you suddenly see your creepy co-worker, your kindergarten bully, your coffee shop grapist (groping rapist: someone who is a little too *huggy* for comfort) all crawling out of the woodwork trying to friend you. or worse, you have someone that you maybe met one time at a friend of a friend's party, who could be a nice enough fella, but could just as easily be a total nutjob. now, since there isn't a polite way to decline a friend invite, you are now stuck with the dead weight of all these social connections that you'd rather not advertise to the world. and before you know it all the cool kids have left myspace and moved on to facebook.

and facebook could face the same eventual fate. but they have scrabulous, which changes everything. i may not want to be best buds with the aforementioned weirdos, but i'd be ok playing a nice game of scrabble with them. well - facebook may not have scrabble much longer, given that hasbro is litigating the crap out of them, but for now they actually have the one killer app that transcends the social hierarchy. scrabble ... i mean scrabulous could be their ultimate savior

Monday, January 28, 2008

the primary draws nigh

Identity politics has put an interesting twist on the race. If nothing else, I'm proud of the left hand side for even getting us to this point - not the stodgy white-male sausage fest that you see on the other side. I'm still really torn. I like the big O, but I am not convinced that America is anywhere near as color blind as the mainstream media thinks it is. And I think the idea of Bill as First-Man is hilarious. I can't decide if I'm voting for electability or if I'm voting for my personal politics. It would never happen, but is there any chance Hillary and Obama would run on the same ticket? I wonder ...

Saturday, January 26, 2008

thinly veiled

My daughter looks a little like both of us. And not really anything like either of us. She does, at this point, have light skin and blue eyes though. Which sometimes turns into comments from strangers along the lines of, "Wow! She looks exactly like her mother". This really just seems like a socially acceptable way of saying, "She doesn't look very Indian".

Now my partner and I can laugh and write this off as naivete, given that she definitely shares some of our physical characteristics on closer inspection. But I can only imagine what adoptive or non-biological parents must feel. "She doesn't look anything like you!" - No shit, Sherlock! And this affects my ability as a parent, how?

Bloody HeteroNorms!